Many parents think that planting the good behaviors is based upon commanding and punishment. These ways form some of the simple methods employed in the behavioral education. In this brief article, I will refer to some of the methods the mothers can benefit from in planting the good behaviors in her kids or in correcting the bad ones. They are, for instance:

Negligence
A child may sometimes employ undesirable ways for getting his targets, like screaming, weeping, and embarrassing his/her mom before the guests. In this regard, the optimal method is not getting angry or cruel on the kid, rather the negligence of his behavior without responding to his/her demands. A child should be grown up on taking the peaceful and calm methods in getting his/her desires. Negligence can hide, or at least reduce, many of the harmful and bad behaviors of a child.

The Good Model
We are needless to confirm the importance of the good model for a child. All of us recognize this. But on asking a child to keep his room tidy while yours is usually untidy, uttering obscene words and demanding him/her not to do, or forbidding from telling lies then asking him/her to lie and cheat his/ her mother, all what we are saying will be vanished by our deeds.

Reward
The reward has a positive influence on the behavior of a child. It is not necessarily a material one; it can be given as a praise or encouraging and admiration. One of the rewards which can given to a child is to promise him/her to go with his/her father in the outdoor errands by car or whatever a child desires. One must be careful on using the rewards properly so as to avoid changing them into a price for the good behavior.


Dialogue and Persuasion
One of the most important behaviors a child must acquire is to habituate him/her on the dialogue and persuasion. Parents must listen to a child carefully, expressing their views in a convincing and justifiable way. This strategy can impact a child�s opinions and convincing not to mention his/her personality and abilities.

This should be practiced carefully because a child must be accustomed to the obedience without making the persuasion a condition to obey the parents.

Setting Clear-Cut Systems
It so vital for a mother to regulate clear-cut systems for a child, habituating him/ her to arrange the bed room, for instance, after getting up, and avoiding disturbing others, etc. To work, this strategy should go in harmony with a child�s level through giving him/ her clear-cut guidelines he/she can understand, abide with and carry out.



Habituating on Solving problems diplomatically

One of the troublesome matters for the parents is the fights and conflicts between the kids. The problem may be worsened by the intervention of the parents. A mother should know that she can not put an end to these fights completely, and she can reduce them to the minimum level, habituating a child to solve all his/her problems in a friendly way, and setting the rewards and systems helping in doing that. A mother should not intervene in the simple conflicts between the kids, that a child may adopt a weak personality, complaining constantly and dependence.