Whoever does enjoy the luxurious pleasures and at the same time remind himself with these blessings to thank the Giver, particularly during the negligence originated from that chaos created by one�s self? It is a chaotic life in which a person may lose his way in searching and realizing his dreams and wishes mixed with the unlimited pleasures and blessings, granted by God to us, not noticed before they vanish and disappear.


One of the great blessings given by the great Giver is the children, the real adornment of our life, the blessing from which we do suffer for the sake of our dreams, and the cause of prolonging our life for a more shining future.


However, we may not be aware of the knife which we point to our kids� back, not aware of how we do that or why.

In a situation like that, we are needless to trace out our bad actions with our kids; we must recognize how to protect them against the causes of the mischief and suffering, to protect them against the poisonous ghost- the moral deviation and the bad friends. All in all, We can do that by the following:

1. Be with your son in all his life stages, as a child, a teenager and a young man. Share his dreams, wishes and natural changes.

2. Talk with him . Listen to his oppositional opinions, supposing always that both of you are of two different generations; he has a right to express his opinions.


3. Share his spare times, inviting him to share your personal interests like using the PC, hunting, visiting the friends or performing any physical or mental sport.


4. Justify to him the reasons for his suffering or anger, making him aware that you are, like him, a human being not an angel.

5. If he says something you completely refuse, do not focus on stressing your refusal only, but call him to see the disadvantages of his request. Give him a chance to try with a close, but hidden, overseeing from your side (naturally, do not let him try in the religious prohibited matters).


6. Correct his manners and misbehavior with patience, kindness and understanding. To be tough does not mean that you have to use the whip. Let your affectionate feelings and emotions talk about you; he will feel secure when you hug and kiss him.



7. Stress that you trust so much in him and you can rely on him. Prove your words with deeds; trust in practically and reward him if you feel that he is able to fulfil the responsibility.

8. Do not make the troubles and stress you face in life the pretext to suppress him and deny his right to lead a peaceful and stable life.

9. Get acquainted with his friends, calling them to your house to help your son in selecting the best good friends.

10. Make him happy with your permanent presence beside him, and forget your personal desires at some time for him.

It is Ten Commandments not for every father only, but for every mother tying to save and protect her daughter against falling in the claws of vices and deviation. The failure in doing what we have listed above tempts the youth to go astray the right way and accompany the bad friends. Do not let your son fall a prey to the bad accompany, and remember your duties to protect him against a stab which may destroy his future.